6.23.2010

behind the smile

Behind the smile
I miss her everyday
and thoughts go through my head I'd never dream of sharing

Behind the smile
I grieve her short life
and often wonder why

Behind the smile
I question
if a greater faith would have been formed if I had witnessed her healing?
 
Behind the smile
I hide
It is far safer than expressing openly just how bad I might be doing

Behind the smile
I wonder
What her heart must be feeling

Behind the smile
I wish
that my little girl were here too

Behind the smile
I can feel her
And wonder if she can feel me too

Behind the smile
I live
Or try to like everyday is my last

Behind the smile
I know
Just how blessed I am to have had those 13 days with her

Behind the smile
I cry
for the little girl I never got to know

Behind the smile
my tears are flowing
and it's only then that I realize my heart's still in a million pieces

Behind the smile
I want to retreat
to my time-though short-spent in the NICU with her

Behind the smile
I am broken
Knowing that this side of heaven, this is as good as it gets.

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

Beautiful Franchesca. (((Hugs)))

amy said...

luv u sister, and i sit with u in silence....

Lily Dawn said...

that is beautiful~ perfectly written... i adore poetry, it just expresses our thoughts and feelings so honestly.

I have been MIA for awhile so I am trying to catch up. i adore the new blog look and colors! I think it is perfect for Miss Jenna =) (i am getting antsy with my blog too, i am almost ready for a change)

Hugs~ Lily

Melissa said...

This is beautiful, I love it.

Monica said...

Wow that speaks 100's of words more than are written. Our lot defined so clearly. Love it!!

Antoinette said...

**tears** AS USUAL!!!!!! you have such a way with words...its incredible!!!!

Michelle said...

What a beautiful expression Fran. Just beautiful.

B said...

Beautiful! Thank you for expressing what many of us often feel.

Mary said...

I could have written this Fran. It was lovely, and so true. So much is happening behind my smile...deep in my heart.

Caroline said...

Very Beautiful.

Caroline

Lisette said...

This is so beautiful. It is so touching, I love it. Jenna can feel your love. ((HUGS))

Jill said...

Perfectly said... xoxo

Mother Knows Best Reviews said...

That is so, so perfectly written. Hugs.

Maggie said...

Beautifully said! And with so much heart. :) (((HUGS)))

Heather said...

Absolutely precious. Thank you for sharing this.
Tears are flowing, as so much of this rings true in my own life...

Heather

Malory said...

Beautiful & soul wrenching.

Kelly @ Sufficient Grace Ministries said...

Haven't visited for awhile. Your blog is beautiful, Franchesca...and so are your words in this poem. So heartfelt and true...it all does lie hidden behind the smile doesn't it?

With Out My Punkin said...

Beautifully written ((hugs))

rebecca said...

Beautifully written & a wonderful memorial to your daughter. I stumbled upon your blog after searching out those who have dealt with infant loss. My husband & I just lost our daughter a week ago due to premature labor at 23wks into my pregnancy. We are in a difficult place with our grief & it helps to know we are not alone, although I hate that anyone else has ever felt the depths of such grief.

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